Darling, Can I Advise You Something?!

2 weeks in 2020 and we are already seeing a lot of stuff happening around us. World War 3 has just been announced. The fires in Australia are getting worse. Some famous Youtube beauty guru’s relationship of five years just ended. Malaysia Baharu is not really ‘new’ where racism still rules. Aliff Aziz can’t control his lil bird, like usual lah. And so on.

So, what about you? Are you already chasing your 2020 goals or perhaps still trapped with happened last year? No matter what the situation is, I hope anyone who reads this could find your strength, center ground and the courage to get through yet another new year. I hope you get to stand on your own feet and never allow anything less than what you actually deserve. Tell yourself that you do not deserve the bare minimum.

Darling, if I can advise you something is that you deserve to be loved and adored. You should be cared in every best way possible that your mind, body and heart need and long for. You deserve to be appreciated and receive the same energy back just the way how you give your love, time and effort to someone else.

Never feel guilty letting them know what you actually want. Be unapologetically YOU. Never settle with someone who doesn’t vibe the same energy as you do. You deserve and should keep your standards high and speak your mind and thoughts freely without feeling ashamed or at fault. You deserve someone who could prove their own worth to you through actions and not just words.

You deserve anything your heart wants. Do remind yourself that you are more than deserving. You are worthy. You might be healing from past wounds but never stop growing. You have every right to feel all those hurtful feelings because after all you are just human. But then, keep your chin up, give your best smile and hold your head high, honey.

Because that is what a winner does. You gotta move forward with grace and courage. Keep believing that some good day, the stars will align in your world and brighten your journey. One day the heartache, lessons, tears and uncertainty will all be worth it. Remind yourself that you are your number one priority. Be your own number one biggest fan.